Friday, July 30, 2010
Raise Your Kids Right: What to Say Instead of Praising | BlogHer
Raise Your Kids Right: What to Say Instead of Praising | BlogHer: "'What kids do need is unconditional support, love with no strings attached. That’s not just different from praise –- it’s the opposite of praise. 'Good job!' is conditional. It means we’re offering attention and acknowledgment and approval for jumping through our hoops, for doing things that please us.' -- Alfie Kohn"